FindingVirtue
A Father’s Guide to Raising Sons Who Live God’s Truth in Action
Because sons do not drift into manhood. They are aimed. They are formed. They are released.
When does a boy become a man?
What does it mean to be a man?
Who is going to tell him?
These aren’t rhetorical questions. Every boy is already asking them — whether he knows it or not. And in a world that has no good answers, the noise and lies are doing damage.
Finding Virtue is a complete, biblically-grounded program for fathers who want to lead their sons to a relationship with Christ, to understand their true identities, and into the manhood God has designed for them.
Twelve virtues. A cohort of trusted men. And a coming-of-age ceremony where a father stands before his son, his community, and his God and declares:
You are a man.
Finding Virtue is your guide.
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The Books
Finding Virtue
The complete program in one book. Everything a father needs to lead his son through twelve virtues, build a cohort of trusted men, plan each Virtue Day, and conduct The Calling — the coming-of-age ceremony that marks the moment a boy steps into manhood. If this is the only book you buy, you have everything you need.
Father's Field Guide
The hands-on companion for dads who want to go deeper. Additional Virtue Day planning tools, prayer guides, space to capture notes and memories, and extra teaching support for each virtue. Not required — but a great way to make the experience even better.
Son's Field Guide
Your son's own companion through the program. His copy to read, mark up, take notes in, and keep forever. Each virtue has space for him to engage with the teaching, record the adventure, and carry the memory of every Virtue Day. A keepsake he will have for the rest of his life.
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Psalm 119:9
“How can a young man keep his way pure? By living according to your word.”
Twelve Virtues
Twelve Virtues. Twelve Adventures. A Christ-centered foundation for a lifetime.
One virtue at a time, each taught on a day set apart — just a father, his son, and a trusted cohort of men. Each Virtue Day builds toward the moment when everything comes together in The Calling ceremony.
Tap a virtue to reveal its scripture.
Love
Love
“God is love, and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God in him.”
1 John 4:16
Patience
Patience
“Be still, and know that I am God.”
Psalm 46:10
Grace
Grace
“For by grace you have been saved through faith; and this is not your own doing — it is the gift of God.”
Ephesians 2:8
Joy
Joy
“You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy.”
Psalm 16:11
Compassion
Compassion
“Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.”
Ephesians 4:32
Courage
Courage
“Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.”
Joshua 1:9
Discipline
Discipline
“No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Yet later it yields a harvest of righteousness and peace for those trained by it.”
Hebrews 12:11
Righteousness
Righteousness
“The Lord is righteous in all his ways and faithful in all he does.”
Psalm 145:17
Integrity
Integrity
“Whoever walks in integrity walks securely, but whoever takes crooked paths will be found out.”
Proverbs 10:9
Purity
Purity
“How can a young man keep his way pure? By living according to your word.”
Psalm 119:9
Humility
Humility
“He humbled himself by becoming obedient to death — even death on a cross.”
Philippians 2:8
Peace
Peace
“You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you.”
Isaiah 26:3
“Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.”
Proverbs22:6
Resources, Community and Support
- Online bootcamps for individual dads walking through the program with coaching, community, and Q&A support
- A full Chapter model for churches, schools, and organizations — complete with training, collateral, and materials to bring Finding Virtue to your community
- Community support connecting fathers and families on the Finding Virtue journey
- Additional virtue teachings, resources, and guides to go deeper into the program
“When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me.”
1 Corinthians13:11
About The Author / Founder
Reagan R. Miller is a follower of Christ, committed husband, father of five, grandfather of ten, and the author of Finding Virtue. The ministry was born from a program he and his wife built for their son. Reagan’s passion is for families and raising a generation of men who will stand for Christ, make Him known to all the world and live according to God’s truth.
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